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6 Porn Games You Can Play Right Now
Communally watching fisting porn at Kate Sinclaire’s Airbnb before the Playground Conference in 2015. Do you ever watch porn like it was a cinematic adventure, rather than a perfunctory wank tool?...
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5 Ways to Support Sex Workers
Have you heard? Sex workers’ rights are being eroded more and more every day, and they were pretty scant already in most places. The shitty laws known as SESTA/FOSTA – ostensibly designed to prevent...
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10 Ways to Increase the Pleasure Quotient in Your Life
I’m a Taurus, which – according to many astrological authorities – means I am a born pleasure seeker. We Taureans are supposedly prone to seeking out magnificent foods, lounging in comfy clothes,...
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A Dating Site For Non-Monogamous People
One of the biggest questions I get from readers – whether they’re kinky, demisexual, polyamorous, or any other off-the-beaten-path sexual minority – is “How do I meet people like me?” It’s a fair...
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5 Reasons to Buy Sex Toys in Person at a Sex Shop
With Valentine’s Day just around the corner, you might have a sex toy purchase in mind, whether you’re hoping to wow your partner or just have a nice night getting sexy solo at home. While it may be...
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The Fine Art of the Romantic Bruise Selfie
Content note: this post discusses, and contains photos of, bruising – only the happy, consensual kind, but bruising nonetheless. I encourage you to take care of yourself and skip this one if that’s...
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How to Do Solo Foreplay
Many of my sex educator friends despise the term “foreplay.” The way it’s traditionally used, it refers to any sexual activities that precede intercourse, from kissing to dry-humping to oral sex. This...
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Let’s Normalize Lube in Sexual Media!
It comes out of nowhere. I’m never expecting it. Why would I? A reference to lube? In a mainstream piece of media? Really? Are you sure? This time, it’s the character Lily on my favorite show of the...
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The Sometimes-Blurry Line Between Content Creators and Fans
“Dating a porn star isn’t all roses / She leaves you home on a Saturday night / You can go crazy from thoughts and supposes / And lose the thin thread between what’s wrong and right” -The Weepies,...
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5 Kinky Ways to Use a Fleshlight
If I had my way, I would buy a Fleshlight for every dick-possessing person I ever date. I can’t definitively say that they’re the best strokers on the market, seeing as I don’t have a penis and...
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